My Happiness Project – February Month End Update

As the month of February ended, I remained ever committed to finishing my project.  I kept the names of each person in a Word document separated by months and numbered by days.  Recently, I discovered that I am somewhat of an over-achiever in that I have already started filling the month of April with names.

It’s interesting to note that I have heard back from approximately 50% of the people I sent notes to by the end of February.  There were a couple of funny stories that went along with a few of the people I acknowledged.  One person became concerned that since it was only my name that appeared on the thank you. He wondered if I had somehow ended the relationship with my fiancé.  Another person responded with condolences thinking that I was dying of cancer and wanted to make amends before it was too late.  While I find the responses amusing, it also tells me how unaccustomed people are to receiving sincere forms of gratitude.

Two people whom I had chosen to acknowledge involved strained relationships.  Both of their responses however, will keep me motivated and inspired to finish the journey.  This Simple Act of Gratitude really does heal wounds and builds bridges.  It was amazing and completely unexpected to hear from both them.  One of them shared how deeply touched he was by my note and the fact that I took the time to hand write it.  I had not spoken to the other person in over six years and I had left no contact information, yet she went out of her way to reach out to me.  It was a tearful event for me – hearing her voice after all that time had passed.

My personal experience of this journey so far can best be described as energizing and exhilarating.  Quoting the famous Zig Ziglar –

“The healthiest of human emotions is Gratitude!”  

I totally get that – it does feel healthy to continue to do this every single day…and so my journey continues.

For more information on how to use these and other practices to enhance your life, please contact me at info@crossthefinishlinecoaching.com.

Improving Productivity & Employee Engagement

Many companies struggle with getting the “more out of less” from their employees and can benefit significantly by taking on the following 21 day challenge that is guaranteed to improve employee: moral, engagement, productivity and ultimately success.  The fact is that it will not take more than 10 minutes daily to complete the three simple tasks.  Research has clearly demonstrated the benefits that these actions, when taken consistently, will deliver all that is promised.

In no particular order the three simple tasks are as follows:

1. Exercise – You don’t need to join a health club or run a marathon – e.g. consider taking the stairs instead of the elevator; park your car a little farther away from your office; do some push-ups.

2. Meditate – Meditation is defined as spending quiet, uninterrupted time focusing on a single concept or nothing at all or as some yoga practitioners refer to it as “quieting one’s mind”.  There is a plethora of meditation websites on the Internet if you need something more structured – [e.g. www.livinglifefully.com].

3. Hand Written Thank You Notes – on a daily basis you are responsible for writing one hand written thank you note.  It can go to anyone – a boss, a spouse, a partner, an enemy, someone who has made life your easier, happier or whatever.  The only rule is nothing electronic such as emails, texts or iMessages – it has to be hand written or printed.

Try these simple task for 21 days.  I, as well as many others, would be interested to read about your amazing, and in some cases, life-changing stories.  Please feel free to leave a comment. 

For more information on how to use these and other practices to enhance your life, please contact me at info@crossthefinishlinecoaching.com.